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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 22.06.2025 17:39

How does one succeed in life?

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

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First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Procrastinates a lot.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

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Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Ask yourself:

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In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

How about learn C sharp at 2024?

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Why did you choose not to join Mensa?

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

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Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

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Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Does not procrastinate.

That's it for today.

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I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Making more friends is a goal.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

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Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

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An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Living to your full potential is a goal.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

What I need from you?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Hangs out with loser friends.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.